The greatest fake out ever...

Ok.... time for a little bit of a back story.

For the last few months Sarah has been talking about how EASY shopping for me is this christmas, and how she has sooo many options. She had also been hinting for a long time about picking up an XBox 360. She asked things like, "so if you got one, which games would you like" and "you really think you want one of those?"

I had also caught her reading about it on xbox.com and a ton of review sites. Over the last few weeks all XBox mentions have stopped around the house. I let it go.

A couple weeks ago at Lina's place I was chatting with Lucas about Xmas. I asked him if a 360 was on his list and he said no because he was very happy with his old school Xbox. I told him I secretly hoped I was getting one. Later on, he sold me out and blurted to Sarah that i thought I was getting a 360.

That's when she hatched her little plan.

I asked her a couple times for hints into my gift - so I'd know what ballpark the gift I got her should be in - price wise. She wouldn't say. I told her she was getting a new perfume called "Lovely", to which she replied "Oh". I laughed and had her admit - well thats close to the price of ONE of the things I got you - but there's also a big gift for you that a bunch of us chipped in on. That comment definately had me thinking XBox.

When Christmas Eve came, I opened up a ton of AWESOME presents. From Sarah i got the WWE DVD board game which Dan-e-o and I run all the time. It was a cool gift, but I was a little confused. I asked her afterwards, "what happened to this group gift you were talking about". She quickly replied, "you're getting it tomorrow at our house". I didn't understand why all other gifts has been opened but one was left out. She made some remark about the gift not being ready, then seemed frustrated and just blurted "it's an expensive new suit. We all chipped in and got you a black suit with thin pinstripes from George Richards".

Now, don't get me wrong - a suit sounded great, but it seemed a little out of left field. She continued on - "I know you wanted an XBox, and we tried to get you one, but they were all sold out. We looked everywhere. The things were selling on Ebay for 1500 and we weren't about to spend that much. Your mom thought this would be a much better gift and she loves seeing you dressed up in suits".

Man... oh well. To be honest, I knew in my heart the XBox 360's were selling like mad and I didn't think they'd be able to pull it off - so a suit seemed very very generous.

Sunday morning we opened more gifts for Tasha and Sarah gave me all the stocking-stuffers she picked up. Dark chocolate, a Q20 game (WHICH I LOVE) and of all things NBA LIVE 2006 for the XBox 360! HUH??

She said that she bought the game months ago, knowing it would sell out, and expecting to get one of the later shipments of an XBox unit. She said she was on a waiting list at EB and something MIGHT materialize in February or March. She said I could hold onto the game or just return it Monday.

I appreciated this tremendously. This to me, was proof she had REALLY tried. I was blown away. I thanked her repeatedly.

Both our parents, Baba and Joe came by that afternoon. The plan was for David to prepare dinner and for us all to enjoy together.

Sarah told me to thank both moms for chipping in on the suit - to which 'Ma Lex' and my mom acted all surpised. "You told him Sarah? You ruined the surprise!"

Just before dinner, my dear wife said that my mother brought the suit and it was time to unwrap it. I was preparing to check out my new threads when suddenly, what was brought to me was a wrapped box! Well figure out the rest...

I was FLOORED. BLOWN AWAY.

They went on to tell me that they had lined up on three seperate mornings outside a store for three seperate shipments. The first two had them come up empty handed, but my mom got an inside tip on a small shipment coming in a few weeks ago and she lined up and snagged one. They said they even had family in the states searching the department stores.

Wow.

I'm still floored - even now - after having played about 9 hours of NBA LIVE 2006.

The only downside is learning that my wife is a TREMENDOUSLY gifted liar and I can never trust her again. Ever.

But at least I have an XBox.

MERRY CHRISTMAS.

Baby's first Christmas!

Christmas Eve has long been the most important day of the year for my family. We all gather at my parents house, eat enough to feed the portuguese army, and then open presents at midnight.

If I was going to try and list everything Tasha got for Christmas, this entry would take me the rest of my holiday vacation. Tons of clothes, toys, sentimental ornaments and more. It's amazing how many people just want to spoil my baby girl. She truly is very fortunate to be surrounded by so much love, and a ton of loot!


Even I got spoiled with a ton of gifts. A new track suit, DVD board game, dress clothes, cash, etc etc. Sarah got the Nike Shox she wanted from me, and a renewal of her gym membership (from my folks).

There to celebrate Natasha's first noel were both sets of granparents, my sister, both brothers-in-law, Lina, Berto, Lucas, Serene, Tia, Tio, Sophie, James and of course, Champ.

The night was of course topped off with the very traditional 'clams and beer'.

It was honestly just an awesome night.

New Tasha pics now online!

There are a whole bunch of new Tasha pics now online. Just visit her online gallery at bigbrew.shutterfly.com. Click the December folder and scroll through the various pages. I added a whole bunch of never before seen Tasha goodness, including some shots from one of her recent Christmas photoshoots, some family snaps and more!

She is just way too cute for words. Someone get this kid a modelling contract quick!

Markham!! What???

Tonight was awesome.

Sarah, Joe, Tasha and I went to Milliken to see the Markham boys take them on in a battle for first place in the division. The Markham boys are not the same basketball team they've been the last 8 years... they are rebuilding with youth. So many of the top guys graduated last year and are now playing college ball.

Adam was on our team as a grade 9 and 10. He was basically a role player on a very deep team, but we always knew he had potential. All season he's been leading this team and scoring a ton. Tonight, he did it when it mattered most.

Markham lost the first game against Milliken a couple weeks ago but it was very close. They knew if they played hard they would be ok in the rematch. Adam came out hard and just dominated. A 6'7" point guard can do that.

Milliken went up 4-0 but then saw Markham's press and couldn't do a thing about it. Adam ended up scoring 20, had a ton of steals and assists and led the team to a very impressive 7 point win.

Part of the fun was seeing Adam's brother Mike (home from Acadia), Hobbsy, Cole (home from Niagara), Burrows, AK (home from Ohio) and CK (home from Boston) and a bunch of other familiar faces.

It was like old home week.

What a great game....

A little bit louder now...

Tasha has a new trick........... it's called, comedy. She's into laughing as loud as possible and babbling non stop - especially amongst a crowd, all for attention. She really is daddy's little girl.

On the weekend, Sarah and I talked about how much Tasha has changed in the last 72 houra. Her personality is really starting to shine. Yesterday, while Sarah was feeding her, I coughed - Tasha stopped eating looked at me and gave up a little baby cough. Sarah looked at her and said "Are you copying daddy?" to which she started laughing hysterically.

SHe got time to hang out with Lou, Lucy, Army, Matilde and the grandparents on the weekend and as per usual she was a crowd pleaser.

Oh - amd I'm blogging this so I have witnesses and so he doesn't try going back on his word. My uncle Lou predicted that Ottawa and Toronto would once again meet in the playoffs, and Toronto would once again stop them from advancing to the next round. I'm sayin, ain't no way in hell anybody is stopping the Sentators Express in 06.

Samoa Joe makes wrestling cool again

Dan-e-o and I just got through watching the TNA Turning Point ppv. Yes, I love wrestling - but TNA reminds me why. Everything they put forth tonight was rock solid with plenty of "HOLY CRAP!!" moments.

At the top of the "HOLY CRAP!!" list is Samoa Joe. Man this guy is sick. Everything he does just looks and sounds sooo real. I swear you can't fake what he does. This is an outstanding character with limitless potential. Joe's been one of my favs since he started in ROH and I'm thrilled he won the X-title tonight. I'm a regular reader of his blog and visit his site regularly.

Despite his gimmick, he's one of the 'good' guys in the business. Much respect Joe. Keep working hard.

Christmas shopping is fun

Well I picked up the big part of Sarah's christmas present today. I hope she likes it. Nothinig worse than one of those ...."oh... great. no really. it's just what i wanted........."

Do you wanna know what I got her? Promise not to tell?


Ya right. Nice try Sarah. I don't trust ANY OF YOU to keep a secret! And no peeking in my underwear drawer! (d'oh)

Tasha meets the other side

We took Natasha to the Christoff family christmas on saturday afternoon and introduced her to even MORE family. It was great. Amazing how she really commands attention.

We handed out these lovely Tasha-christmas cards (don't worry - yours is in the mail) which were a big hit.

After the party we went to the Garsides for a little chill time and to let Tash and Kaylen hang out. Good times.

Let's go Blue Jays, Let's go!

Not since the early 90's has there been THIS much excitement about the Toronto Blue Jays. Their off season moves have the entire baseball world talking about their commitment to winning. General Manager JP Richardi has said for years that they would clean up (former GM) Gord Ash's mess, build through their farm system and develop within. Then, when they felt close - go out and aquire talented players.

So far the Jays have signed the top free agent pitcher of 2005/2006, AJ Burnett, a terrific left handed closer in BJ Ryan and first baseman Lyle Overbay.

Burnett is a guy who many feel will be the next Roy Oswalt in baseball, which would give the Jays two supreme studs at the top of their rotation (obviously Halladay being the other), plus rookie standout Gustavo Chacin, veteran lefty Ted Lilly and the inning eater Josh Towers. Not to mention the 5 star pitching prospects on the farm like Dustin McGowan.

The aquisition of Ryan and Burnett makes Miguel Batista (former starter / current closer) a very tradeable and attractive commodity. He could probably be packaged to bring back another power hitter.

Overbay at first will be a defensive improvement over Hinske - but I don't think Overbay has enough power to play first.

There are still rumors flying about Adam Dunn, Manny Ramirez or Bobby Abreu coming to Toronto by trade or free agency.

I have to admit - I am jacked about the Jays.

Tis the season to see Tasha

Here they are...... the first batch of Tasha's holiday collection! We have her modelling on the couch, in front of the tree and in her Bumbo!

It's amazing how fast she's growing ... weighing in now at an impressive 17.5 pounds! When I look at pics of her from a month or two ago, I can't believe how much she has changed and grown. I'm blown away.

To see all the pics, visit her photo blog

7 years ago...

Seven years ago today, my old buddy Mealin held a party at a crappy little hall in New Market and invited as many people as he could think of. I was there (though I almost didn't go) and thank god I was. hat night changed my life. That was the night I met Sarah.

I'm not going to recount the entire story (if you reeeeally need to hear it, feel free to get a copy of our wedding video!) but needless to say it was a chance meeting that changed the way I felt about everything else. Suddenly my world was thrown upside down. I wasn't in any way looking for a relationship at the time - and suddenly I found myself feeling something I had never felt before. It was unbelievable.

Sarah, you instantly become my best friend, greatest supporter, true love and life long soul mate. I always remember how lucky I am and am so appreciative that fate stepped in seven years ago today.

I love you.

Silly Politicians...

The honour of being the first to be made fun of for something said on the campaign goes to...

It's a tie between Prime Minister Paul Martin, leader of the Liberal Party and Jack Layton, leader of the NDP. Here's why: In response to Stephen Harper's pledge to have no parallel private health care they each said the following...

Paul Martin - "I believe in a Canada that values and protects it's universally publically funded healthcare system, so that healthcare requires a health card, not a credit card."

Jack Layton - "We want our healthcare system to be one that where it's your healthcare card that gets you the healthcare, not your credit card." (Bonus points to Mr. Layton for holding up a health card and credit card as props, just incase we didn't know what he was talking about)

So, not only do they both use bad cliches, apparently they hire the same writers for them. So thank you to Paul Martin and Jack Layton by saying absolutely nothing, using the most words possible and therefore insulting my intelligence.

PS - Don't take me picking on the Liberals and NDP as giving the Conservatives an easy time. I plan to give them all a ride.

We caught Potter fever

Sarah and I left Tasha with Baba Lex and Grandpa David last night and went out to see Harry Potter 4 - the goblet of fire.

The big buzz word from cast members to producers to fans is that this film is much "darker" than the three that preceeded it. Indeed it is. In fact, I was watching it and remembering the number of 6,7 and 8 year olds and my school who said they had already seen it. I'm not sure it's appropriate for their age at all. Graphic depictions of death, scary imagery, horror movie-inspired sound tracks.... I'm just not sure this was for small children.

I understand that the CORE audience for Harry Potter is 10-14 years old and is growing up with the books - but the younger ones are also into it. I was trying to decide how old Tasha would have to be before I'd let her watch this, and I'm just not sure.

Anyhow - aside from the parenting issues ... I enjoyed the movie and thought it was really well done. The fact that it has made 200 million so far blows me away though. It's only been in theatres two weeks!

I'm in the wrong line of work.

Tornado on Tansley

So our place looks like a tornado has gone through it! Sarah and I decided the room that has received the least attention in our house deserved a little love this weekend. Our living/dining room was painted up with the very popular and trendy colours of light blue and brown. My father-in-law did the bulk of the painting while my pops came over on Sunday and lent a hand.

I must admit, the final effect is very dramatic and warm. It may not be everyone's cup of tea - but if it's good enough for the last four houses on Extreme Home Makeover - it's good enough for us.

I'll be posting pictures as soon as the curtains and artwork are all in place!

Tasha's Abreu-Debut (hey that rhymes!)

Last night Tasha and her mom and dad went to the Abreu family christmas party. It was a lot of fun. We had the whole big brood gathered in a church hall for some eating, drinking, dancing and gambling. Just the way it should be in a church basement.

For many of my cousins, uncles and aunts - this was their first chance to see Tasha in person. Needless to say they were impressed by her size, strength, stunning good looks and impressive vocabulary. Most seemed taken with her bubbly "a-goo" sound but others also enjoyed her views on a non confidence vote and a winter election.


She was totally spoiled too. In addition to all the attention she received, she also cleaned up taking home gifts from Michelle, Sandy (Steve, Blaze and Riley), Matilde (and Army) and Tia Percella. Honestly, everyone was just way too generous. We are all humbled by your kindness and are very appreciative.

Anyhow - it was a good night. I haven't had a chance to download pics yet. I will, and then I'll post some here and on the photoblog.

Oh ya, Mike won all the dough playin poker - but next time I'm playing.

Happy Birthday Natasha!

Hard to believe. It was three months ago today at exactly the time I am writing this post that my little angel came into our lives. It's amazing how much life has changed in three months. Priorities, visions of the world, and general mood have all made dramatic shifts. Sarah said something 3 minutes after Tash was born that I'll never forget. "She's going to do great things".

I do believe my daughter will change the world. She's already changed mine.

Happy birthday my little bath-loving devil!

Ughhh..... enough already with the snow!

Isabele and Adam had been planning to come up and visit this weekend for quite some time, but unfortunately the first snow fall of this winter made that impossible.

Buffalo and Syracuse got hit hard, cutting of their two main routes to come up. Damn you snow. I'm glad they didn't decide to chance it though.

My drive to work on Thursday was a nightmare. First of all - my standard 20 minute drive took two hours! The roads were a little icy, but really no big deal as long as you slow down a LITTLE and just relax.

Unfortunately, too many people out there go one extreme or the other. They drive like the conditions haven't changed at all - then end up in a ditch as I drive past and laugh .... OR ... they slow down to the point where glaciers and evolution are moving faster. FRUSTRATING.

Yesterday my prof let us all leave class an hour early to avoid the evening down pour. Again, I don't understand these people who JUST PANIC. Where did they grow up, Jamaica?? If you are a Canadian citizen - or live ANYWHERE in the North East U.S. and CAN'T drive with a little white stuff on the ground, you should be immediately imprisoned or executed. I'm not sure which.

Just stay out of my way!

Sleep well Mr. Miyagi

Since his role on Happy Days, Pat Morita has seemed to always play the role of the loveable old guy. I loved the Karate Kid movies during the 80's. Of course, Morita had to act his tiny ass of to carry Hilary Swank through the terrible sequel "The Next Karate Kid", affectionately known as 'Karate Chick'.

Sucks to hear that he passed away - but I was surprised to hear he was only 73. I mean geeez - William Shatner's older!

The following story was written by the Washington Post and the Associated Press.

Noriyuki "Pat" Morita, 73, whose portrayal of the wise and sly master teacher in "The Karate Kid" earned him an Oscar nomination, died Nov. 24 at his home in Las Vegas.

There were conflicting reports about the cause of death. His daughter Aly Morita said he died of heart failure at a Las Vegas hospital. His longtime manager, Arnold Soloway, said the actor died of kidney failure at a hospital while awaiting a transplant.

Pat Morita played the mentor to "Daniel-san" (Ralph Macchio, left) and later to a character played by Hilary Swank in the "Karate Kid" films. (Associated Press)

As Kesuke Miyagi, the mentor to Ralph Macchio's "Daniel-san" in the 1984 movie, Mr. Morita taught karate and such skills as how to catch flies with chopsticks. He lost the Academy Award for best supporting actor to Haing S. Ngor, who appeared in "The Killing Fields." But he won more roles, including three "Karate Kid" sequels, the last one in 1994 with actress Hilary Swank.

An experienced stand-up comic and comic actor, Mr. Morita had previously been best known for his recurring role in the 1970s and 1980s as the excitable malt shop owner Arnold on the popular television series "Happy Days." He also was a regular on "Sanford and Son" as Lamont's buddy Ah Chew. He was the first Japanese American to star in a television series with the leading role in "Mr. T and Tina," which aired in 1976.

He had worked frequently in movies since the 1980s and provided the voice for a character in the Disney movie "Mulan" in 1998. He had a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

Mr. Morita's success in Hollywood was a long way from his start as the son of migrant fruit pickers in the fields and groves of Northern California. He contracted spinal tuberculosis at the age of 2, and when he was finally able to walk unassisted, he and his family were forced into the World War II-era internment camp at Manzanar, Calif.

"One day I was an invalid," he recalled in a 1989 interview with the Associated Press. "The next day I was public enemy No. 1 being escorted to an internment camp by an FBI agent wearing a piece."

After being released, the family opened a restaurant in Sacramento, serving Chinese cuisine because of lingering anti-Japanese prejudice. "You get the picture?" he once said to the Los Angeles Times. "A Japanese family running a Chinese restaurant in a black neighborhood with a clientele of blacks, Filipinos and everybody else who didn't fit in any of the other neighborhoods."

He eventually became a data processor with the state Department of Motor Vehicles, then secured a graveyard-shift job at Aerojet-General Corp. At age 30, he made the make-or-break decision to go into comedy full time.

His first appearances were in small clubs, until he was asked to fill in for entertainer Don Ho at a 2,000-seat hall in Hawaii. Mr. Morita unexpectedly found himself facing a huge crowd of World War II veterans, many of them disabled. They were there to observe the 25th anniversary of the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor.

"If you're a comic, these are the moments when you have to prove you've really got it," he told the San Jose Mercury News in 1998. "So, I began by telling them I wanted to apologize, on behalf of my people, for screwing up their harbor."

The vets roared. He went on to build a two-decade career in nightclubs, but not until he began making movies was he was able to develop a believable Japanese accent. He won the audition for the sensei in "The Karate Kid" even though he had no martial arts experience and the producers wanted a Japanese rather than a Japanese American actor. He agreed to use his given name, Noriyuki, rather than his stage name of Pat, for the credits, to make him sound more ethnic.

He is survived by his wife, Evelyn, and three daughters from a previous marriage.

So what are your intentions towards my daughter young man?

It has begun. Natasha has a boyfriend.

Well, we couldn't hold on to her forever. I had hoped we would at least keep her around until she learned to use the toilet and talk, but apparently her heart now belongs to another. We had to give her up sometime!

On Wednesday, Sarah took Tasha down to see Alexa (the bridesmaid who passed out at our wedding -- ya that's her) and her two boys. Saam is almost 3 and Sasha is four and a half months old. They let the two babies lay down together, and next thing you know he reached out, grabbed her hand and wouldn't let go!

So far his intentions seem honorable but I'm keeping an eye on him! Don't make me get David's axe!

There are more pics of the happy couple available on Tasha's photo site.

What happened over the last 9 days?

Well, i've been a very bad blogger! I was sick with report card fever. I am proud to say however that several late nights have allowed me to hand them in two days early for the first time since I started teaching. Yay!

Let me try to catch you up as to what's been happening - rapid-fire style.

Sarah and I bought a Christmas Tree last week. It's a really nice 7.5' with prelit LED's. We put it up last week, decorated it and it looked gorgeous. Problem now is, one whole section of the lights have gone dark. They won't light at all and I'm not sure if there's a sudden short or a wiring issue or just defective lights. I'm just hoping we don't have to take all the ornaments off and return the damn thing!

Our Christmas lights outside the house are up too. Dad and I put those up on the weekend and I must admit, they look great!

Class has been busy lately. I've had a ton of reading to do, and with all this report card stuff going on it's been a little tricky to stay on top of it.

My former team - the Augustine girls won another York region title this week. My other former team, the Markham boys are struggling. I went and watched their practice last night and was reminded at just how much the team has changed. Everyone's gone except for Adam and two end of the bench guys from last year. I just hope Adam keeps working hard, and has a good year.

Tasha's been babbling a lot this week. Talking on and on. It's hilarious. She was laying on her playmate last week and hit the dangling ball with her hand. She giggled then kept hitting the ball for the next hour or so. It's so much fun seeing little things like that happen.

Tomorrow Is and Adam are coming up to finally see Tash and spend the weekend with us! I can't wait.

Oh, and there are NEW Tasha pics posted on her photo site.

Eddie Guerrero: 1967-2005

I first met Eddie Guerrero in 1998 in Buffalo at a WCW show. Unlike most wrestlers I ever met when I was still doing my wrestling show, I was actually really excited to meet Eddie. I had been a fan of his since his days in Mexico, and had followed his career closely. I was amazed by his charisma and work rate. When Eddie, Benoit, Saturn and Malenko decided to leave WCW and go to the then WWF, I was thrilled to help broker that deal for him. It was an honor to get four talented guys off the Titantic.

I was shocked into stunned silence on today when I learned that Eddie Guerreo died Sunday morning at a Marriot hotel in Minneapolis.

According to WWE.com "The cause of death is unknown at this time. An autopsy will be performed in Minneapolis on Monday, and Eddie's body will then be flown to Phoenix. Funeral arrangements are set for Wednesday in Scottsdale, Arizona."

More recent reports are suggesting that Eddie had an enlarged heart - caused by years of steroids and drug abuse. His problems with cocaine and pain killers has been well documented - but after going through re-hab and nearly dying in a car crash, Eddie cleaned himself up and had been sober for three years.

Unfortunately, he never stopped doing the juice. Just last month, Dan and I were discussing how Eddie's arms were looking bigger than ever. What a shame. His fellow wrestlers found him laying on the floor of the hotel bathroom, with a toothbrush still in his mouth. Hardly an ending suited for such a warrior.

Eddie is survived by his wife Vickie and daughters Shaul, 14, Sherilyn, 9, and Kaylie Marie, 3.

Vaya con el dios Eddie.

Leaf Nation just got a little bigger

The following is a TRUE story. None of the facts have been changed or altered in any way by the author.

For those of you who don't know - Sarah and her family (Joe and Dad) are Habs fan (booo!) while I (and my father) are Leaf fans... YAY. Last night I sat down with Sarah, Tasha and my folks to watch Leafs and Habs go at it once again. The entire first period featured the Toronto Maple Leafs trying desperately to kill of four penalties and struggle to keep the game scoreless. During Coach's Corner, Tasha was dressed in her Leafs gear. Minutes later, the Buds scored their first of the night! YAY. Shortly there after, they scored again. Tasha fell asleep for a while and Montreal managed to tie the game. When she woke up she started crying (obviously having realized the Leafs were no longer leading). Before the end of 2, Toronto scored again and Tasha stopped crying.

Shortly after she fell asleep again the Habs tied the game and went ahead. Then, while holding my baby girl in her bedroom, Toronto won the game in OT!!

The moral of this story is Natasha is a not only a die-hard Leaf fan, but also a Leaf good luck charm. Despite Quinn and Belfour's best efforts to blow it, Tasha pulled out the win! Yay baby!

Oh, and for more pics of Tasha in Leaf gear, click here....

Proud Poppy

Happy Rememberance Day! We're having an assembly today at the school to mark the occassion. Guaranteed I will lose my poppy again this year. It's just a given. Why have the poppy-people not done away with the straight pin system in favor of something with a backing or a clasp?

What happened to the old poppies they used to hand out with a pretty green center? Now they all have black in the middle. I heard once that it was to make them look more realistic - but come on! It's made of felt!!

Anyway... to all the vets, thank you.

Weekend pictures

Well Tia Di went camera crazy again and snapped a few more. These shots were taken after Toni and Brian's wedding at my parents place, and when Sarah and I went to the reception and it took 60 people to babysit!!

I believe this was the first time Natasha had an outfit completely purchased by mom and dad. Her little hat, dress, shirt....... oh no..... sorry, grandparents bought those cute pink shoes. What can I say, she's got stuff coming in from ALL angles.


Since Shutterbook has been so buggy, I've moved Tasha's online gallery over to Shutterfly. The address is http://bigbrew.shutterfly.com This system appears to be much more user friendly, and stable.

I've put up six different albums so far so checking Tasha out online is easier than ever! :) Yay! More Tasha pics!

Atta' girl!

Look at my baby girl!! Holding her head up all big-girl like. I tell ya by next week she'll be running and by December she'll be going for her G licence.

Tasha has now abandoned the "size 2" diapers and moved on to size 3. Size 3?? Are you kidding me?? This kid is definately taking after daddy! Not to mention the fact that last night Sarah and I had her wearing a very cute outfit that was sized as being appropriate for a nine month old. Reality check: Tasha will be 11 weeks old on Thursday. 9 MONTHS?? It's not just that one outfit either. All her 0-3 months stuff has to be folded and boxed up. There are clothes that say 6 months that are tight on her.

Obviously breast feeding works. Not only has she been getting nice and chubb, but she's also getting taller. By March she'll be dunking.

I love you Tasha, my giant lil' girl!

Check your horoscope - Brew style!

Introducing a new feature here on my little blog. A montjly horoscope, cleverly called the Brew-scope. How uncreative is that? Sorry, best I could do. I'll endeavor to keep it updated on a monthly basis. There's a cute little logo on the side bar that you can click to read it anytime.

Click here for November's Brew-scope.

Ultimate finale!

Anyone who knows me, knows that I've been a wrestling fan since the age of 7. What they may not realize is that over the last 9 years I've actually become a huge fan of MMA - Mixed Martial Arts fighting. The UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) has actually done a lot of good for the world of MMA: taking it from being known as nothing more than underground bloodsport - to mainstram TV.

The reality show "Ultimate Fighter" pits amateur MMA fighters who wish to be trained against each other. Like Big Brother or Survivor, they are put into teams, must face challenges - then have a fight each week. Winner stays, loser goes home. Season two just ended on the weekend with a huge marathon broadcast and the final episode dubbed "Ultimate Finale"

The show had four spectacular fights with really compelling storylines. Unlike the WWE experience, these storylines aren't contrived and soap opera like. They are real life issues, settled in an eight sided steel cage! YESSS! THAT'S entertainment!

They have a big pay per view coming up Saturday November 19th. I SUGGEST checking it out! For more information - go to UFC.tv

Busy weekend

On Friday night, Sarah and I took Natasha out to Anna and Roulof's place for a little Friday night drink and barbeque. It was actually a lot of fun. I got the chance to meet some of Sarah's friends from work as well as their significant others. It's kind of funny hearing a group of teachers from a different school talk about what they are happy / unhappy about. Gives me a different perspective on my own working situation and how fortunate I actually am.

On Saturday we went to a wedding. Sarah's cousin Toni and her new husband Brian had a lovely service and a very nice reception. Everyone was quite taken with Tasha at the church in her little dress and hat (pictures on the way). We took Tasha to my parents house after the wedding, thinking that the reception might just be a little too much for her. So we armed the grandparents with three bottles of milk, the Baby Papasan chair, a diaper bag, and my old crib (which Dad assembled for Tasha).

On Sunday I had a meeting with my group from Trent on good old Doctor Faustus. I can't lie. I actually ENJOYED this play. I'd recommend it to anyone.

Sunday night after what felt like HOURS of grocery shopping, I came home to Khira and Andre. They were dropped off and spending the night with us before flying back to Boston on Monday. It was nice. We just hung out, had some dinner, watched School Of Rock with Jack Black and sent them on their merry way to bed.

Overall, not a bad weekend at all.

Now I just have to find some time for my report cards!!!

Halloween 2005

Well it's been a great Halloween. Natasha's first, and one of my favs of all time. I wore a really goofy white trash / Joe Dirt type get up (complete with mullet and fake tats) to work! It was actually pretty funny!

My co-worker and good friend Melissa was all decked out as an Ice Princess. There were actually a ton of people dressed up - staff and students and I was impressed by the number of really well thought out, original costumes.

I tend to get really excited, cuz - well I love Halloween!


As many of you knew, Tasha got all dressed up as a little Chili Pepper - a costume given to her by Aunt Loretta. She also tried on a costume that was a gift from two of my students - Sydney and Courtney... a little pink bunny suit. The suit is way too big for her but wow it looked cute anyway!!

Tonight, Darkside came by with his lil' girl Kaylin who was all dressed up as a chicken. It was great. We put them together and had spicy chicken.

There are a bunch of Halloween pics of Tasha on the Shutterbook slideshow site.

On a side note...... remember the days when there would be TONS of kids knocking on the door on Halloween night? Tonight we had a dozen or so.... Di told me around 8PM they hadn't had any. I guess it's partially because of our neighborhood - many young couples that have babies or no kids at all.. but in general, there just seem to be fewer kids going out than there were 'back in the day'.

Christian Quits!

Well, I was shocked today to find out that an old friend, Jay Reso from the WWE (better known as Christian) quit the company today. His contract had expired a week ago and he'd been working without one since.

One of the office guys put a terrible contract in front of him and demanded he re-sign on the spot. Reso didn't bite and has now flat out rejected the offer.


Reso, a native of Orangeville Ontario, has lived in Florida the last few years with his wife. His two closest friends in the wrestling biz who were fired by the WWE within the last year have both turned up with the upstart TNA organization. TNA films all of their shows at Universal Studios in Florida. Sounds like Jay is going to be working closer to home as soon as his 60 day no-compete runs out.

I first met Jay back in 1996 and I couldn't be happier for him. He'll finally be free to express himself creatively and have the glass ceiling removed.

Good luck Captain Charisma!

Basketball news

Mike Folker is an outstanding young man I coached for three seasons at MDHS. Some of you might remember him as the kid who caught the garter at my wedding! I remember when he was a grade nine at McGivney and I was convincing him and his folks to transfer for a superior program and the chance to play university ball just like his dad. Well, Mike is playing university ball now and is excelling as a rookie at his dad's Alma mater - Acadia.

Mike is at Acadia with another GTA kid - Paulo Santana out if Central Commerce. Santana is actually a year older than Mike but both are rookies. These two freshman are currently leading their team in almost every statistical category.

Folker 4 GP 1 GS 27.3 MIN .488% FG .667 3PT % .667 Free% 4.0 Reb 3 TO 12.5 PPG
Santana 5 GP 3 GS 22.6 MIN .417% FG .389 3PT % .778 Free% 6.4 Reb 14 TO 15.6 PPG


In terms of their ranking on the team .... they are:
1st (Folker) and 4th (Santana) in minutes played
1st (Santana) and 2nd (Folker) in scoring
1st (Santana) and 2nd (Folker) in rebounding
1st (Folker) and 3rd (Santana) in FG %,
2nd (Folker) and 4th (Santana) in 3pt shooting

Outstanding work.

In other MDHS grad news...........

Tonight I'll be seeing Tyler McGarrity in his Windsor blue and yellow play Waterloo at Humber College. I'm excited to see T play. He was a huge part of our back to back championships at MDHS and improved dramatically after transfering from Ajax.
Already this young season, he has played some big minutes and continued to do what he did in high school - score in bunches and rebound like a fiend (especially on the offensive glass).

Last night, Sarah, Tasha and I went to Brother Andre to see their girls defeat MDHS and win the division title. Wolk's first title of any sort in 7 years. Too bad it was awful looking basketball. Oh well.

Just another Tuesday...

Actually it was a pretty cool day.

Sarah had to take Tasha to the doc today for her shots. Since we still have just the one car, the girls left the house with me early this morning and came to work with me for first period. Needless to say, she's a hit with staff and students alike. They left me there (how mean!) and hung out at Baba's until it was time for the appointment. Even though many people warned us that Natasha would be very fussy and upset and possibly sick after receiving the dreaded shots - she was fine. A little whimpering followed by a lot of napping. That's my girl. What a trooper.

After work I ran my weekly basketball clinic for students at my school interested in skill development. It's actually a cool little program the school has instituted.

Speaking of ball - I went to a college game tonight. The Durham Lords versus the Niagara Knights. Why? My ol' pal Matt Cole is playing for the Knights. I coached Matty the last four seasons at MDHS and was thrilled he latched onto a college team. Sad thing is, Matt broke his foot in the summer and was redshirted for the entire 2005-2006. He is still eligible to play in exhibitions (which tonight's game was) but despite a 20 point defecit, the coach decided not to put the kid in. Hey, why would ya put in a dead eye shooter when you're entire team is huckin up air balls and struggling to score at all.

Mike St. Rose is also on the Knights. I worked with him while he was a member of the Vegas AAU team and the team we took down to New York last year. I like MSR. I think he's a good kid. He actually got a lot of time tonight, (the big kids usually do) but struggled heavily. Threw 2 balls out of bounds, and missed 4 or 5 layups in tight. He did have a nice dunk in the warmup though ;)

Cole - if yer reading this - stick it out buddy. Don't lose faith. Next season the 2 spot is yours.

Good weekend.... now time to work!

This was actually a pretty solid weekend. On Friday night I went to see the Raptors for the first time this season. The tickets were a birthday gift from Aunt Loretta. The plan was for Sarah and I to go together, but she's been having unreal pains lately in her knees (shin splints according to the doctor), so she stayed home with Tash and I went with Dan-e-o.

The game was actually pretty entertaining, and the Raps beat the Boston Celtics 93-83.

I have read on several websites and heard people in the media talk about how awful the Raptors will be this year and how they don't have any assests and how the NBA in Canada is in trouble. Personally, I think that's a bunch of crap from people who don't understand the game.

The Raptors started three rookies against Boston. UConn's Charlie Villaneueva, Oklahoma State's Joey Graham and an impressive young point guard from Spain - Jose Calderon. All three aquitted themselves nicely playing sound defence on and off the ball and showing the ability score. Jalen Rose provides great leadership - as does Mo Pete (who's really an under-rated defender who just shoots the ball too much). Put all that with hard work guys like Pape Sow, Matt Bonner and Mike James and you have the makings of a team that won't be contending, but should be competitive and entertaining. Of course, I didn't even mention the face of the franchise - Chris Bosh. But what's there to say about CB4 that hasn't been said?

On a side note....... what's up with fans at a game who shoot you a dirty look when you decide to be LOUD and involved? Am I in church? Is this a freakin' library? Why can't I yell from the 14th row for Loren Woods to stop shooting the damn ball? What's wrong with that? I NEVER EVER use profanity at a game and I keep my comments light hearted. Never fails though - there's always some blue-hair and some family of 4 with 2 kids looking at you as if to say "Would you keep it down, i'm trying to concentrate!"

I'm starting to think this is a problem that exists exclusively in Toronto. I've been to sporting events in other cities that were way more boistrous. Hell, I've been to high school games with more emotional crowds than I see at the ACC. The Dome is the worst though - when you go down to watch the Jays. I remember actually being asked to leave once by an Usher because some fossil who was about 158 years old (and a season ticket holder) was trying to focus on her scorecard, and didn't enjoy me screaming at Joe Carter to lay off that stupid offspeed pitch.

After the Raptors game, Dan and I went for dinner at East Side Mario's then went out on the town. Good times.

Yesterday, was a family day. Sarah's Aunt Linda came by with her two kids Justin and Lisa (Lisa was a bridesmaid in our wedding). They hung out for a couple hours and of course were amazed by our girl. My Aunt Lucy and Uncle Lou came by to meet Tasha for the first time and couldn't get over how big she is.

Lisa decided to stay over when everyone else left. We got out the drinks, watched some bad horror movies and a few episodes of Dead Like Me from Showcase. Has this show been cancelled? Anyone know??

Today, my in laws are coming by, and so is my dad apparently. Tonight is the TNA "Bound for Glory" ppv, and a few of us will be headed over to Darkside's to take in the fun.

This week I have to start putting together my mid-term report cards (ughhh), write an essay for my english lit class, and i have to read two plays: Christopher Marlowe's Doctor Faustus and Romeo and Juliet by Billy Shakes.

Well, off I go...

New pics of my baby girl!

There are a few new pictures on Natasha's Shutterbook album (including a sneak peek at her wearing her first Halloween Costume!)... Click this link to see them. If you have any problems seeing the pictures on shutterbook, let me know. You need to have Flash Player installed on your computer.

Hello Shutterbook!

Posting photos on blogger is old and busted. Shutterbook is the new hotness. From now on, all new Tasha pics, and other shots I decide to post will be up on this cool new site. It's a flash driven photobook site. You can even add MP3 background music, control your slideshows, add comments.... it's pretty freakin cool!

Click this link to see the first album.

Pics of Tasha from Aunt Di

My shutterbug sister went to town once again on Thanksgiving Monday and actually got some great shots of Natasha. Of course, truth be told... a blind chimp using a stone tablet and chisel could take great shots of lil' Tashy. Let's be serious, she's gorgeous. Not to downplay her photographic talent, all hail Diane's artistic eye! Follow the link below for pics of my Care Bear and a bunch of other strange people.

2 years today!

It's hard to believe that at this time exactly, two years ago tonight I was standing before friends and family pledging my love to my beautiful bride. Wow. Two years. In some ways it feels like it was only last week, and in some ways it feels like it has been much longer than 24 months. In that time we have moved into our own home, travelled to Cuba, made new friends, and added a gorgeous baby girl to our family. What a ride. I can honestly say I am a very, very lucky guy.

The following part of this post is especially for Sarah...

I love you more now than I ever have. Thank you so much for two years of marriage. Thank you for Natasha. Thank you for being the Ying to my Yang. Thank you for understanding me. Thank you for picking me. Thank you.

Not very elequent, but I'm still sick, and not feeling so hot... I'll make it up to you though babe. How about Merron this weeked??

Sick as a dog

Posts have been few and far between lately as I caught that bug that's been going around. For the last week and a bit i've been draggin' and whining like a big suck.

Hectic family weekend... Friday night was Sarah's fourth baby shower! The tradition with her mother's side of the family is to hold a shower after the baby has been born... so they did and needless to say everyone was very very generous.

I even scored a couple of belated birthday presents!

The last two days were spent having turkey dinners and feeling fat!

This morning really sucked though. I ended up going to the hospital with unbelievable ear pain. It turns out I have an infection and am going to have trouble hearing for a few days.

Fabulous.

Fun at the Fair

Yesterday the three of us went to the Markham Fair. In the 15 years i've been going i've never once seen such unbelievable weather. The place was packed and everywhere we turned I was bumping into old friends. Tasha seemed to enjoy herself too, though she did sleep through most of it.

I ran into a ton of people on Saturday at the Fait including Hilary, Claudia and Vanna. All three were good friends during high school, and all three have gone on very different paths in life. It's so amazing hearing everyone's updated story. The thing that Sarah and I thought was funny was that I saw all these people I went to school with, but none of them knew each other. Sort of speaks to the way things were for me back then. I pretty much knew everyone.

Of course, Tasha was a big hit. Everyone that saw her loved her. Total strangers were either commenting on how beautiful she is or asking us to trade strrollers (GO QUINNY!).

She's a happy baby!

I can't explain how I'm feeling. Today I saw Natasha smile for the first time. I mean really smile. Not one of those gas-inspired facial ticks. Not one of those yawning have smirks. Not one of those things where her upper lip kinda quivers like a baby Elvis. I mean she really smiled. She smiled in response to high pitch sounds and other smiling faces. Wow. That was really cool.

Lots of news....

Well it's been an eventful week. I celebrated my birthday, got a ton of cool stuff from friends and family, have watched Tasha grow to an impressive 11.5 pounds, my parents came back from Portugal and I went partyin' on the weekend. Woo hoo.


On Saturday night, I went out with Amy (who has the same birthday as me) and a bunch of friends to a bar. Good times had by all. Dan-e-o came along for the ride and split about 4 plates of fries with me. Nice.

My boy Darkside launched his new site / business. AllNewComics.com. Think New. Think Comics. Think Canadian. If you need a hook-up for comics, go see Darkside - he's got your back.

The Dark one and I are also working on a little side project of our own that will be a lot of fun. Stay tuned.

I was disappointed to hear about Don Adams today. The star of "Get Smart" passed away at the age of 82 yesterday. He had broken his hip last year and never fully recovered. He died officially from a lung infection - 65 years of smokin' will do that to you! He was seriously funny and one of my favs as a kid. Damn - first Gilligen, now Maxwell Smart. Who's next? Captain Kangaroo? He's DEAD?? Oh geez.

Goodbye sweet youth!

My twenties are officially over. To tell you the truth, I couldn't be happier. I've accomplished more than my share in the last decade. From my work with St. John, to my career in broadcasting, becoming a teacher, meeting my bride, getting married, buying a great house, having a beautiful baby girl... Hell I think I've done pretty well for myself!

All I've heard is "Dude, the big 3-0!!". I've maintained a theory for many years though. I was never a typical guy for my age... I always had older friends, and tried to carry myself accordingly. I've had so many amazing life experiences, some have suggested I write a book. When a guy in his 20's tries telling someone pushing 40 that they have experienced a lot and have a pretty good understanding of the world, they are often laughed at. "Oh you're just a puppy!" Turn 30 though and instantly you move up on the respect ladder. Deny if you like, but it's damn true. The same paradigm applied when I chopped off my waist length hair at 22. :)

Sarah and Natasha came to visit me at school today and it was awesome. The kids were thrilled to meet her, as were the other staff members. Mr. H took some pics so we'll have them posted some time soon.

Tonight I'll be having dinner with my in-laws (mmmmm what's in David's gourmet kitchen????), my sister, both brothers-in-law, my Baba, my girl, my baby girl and probably the Garside clan. Should be fun.

Looks like i'll be going out this weekend to do a traditonal b-day type blow-out. Nothing to crazy though. I'm not a kid anymore!

Pictures of Tasha from the weekend

You're growin' up right before our eyes....

Where has the time gone?

I haven't posted anything in a week and time is just sort of racing past me. Tasha is getting so much bigger. She must be well over 9.5 pounds (that's my guess-timate) and she's definately grown a full 3 inches in length since birth! She's 25 days old now and really starting to take on her own features. She really is amazing.
I took a bunch of pics of her this weekend, but haven't had a chance to download them yet. I'll do that tonight and post them here.


I started mu university course last week. I must admit, I didn't hate it; Quite the contrary - I almost liked it. Almost. The prof seems a little whacked out, but appears to be a good guy. He's got his PHD in english or education or some damn thing and he's only a few years older than me.

He gave us an online test to do - to evaluate our "thinking styles". The idea here was that we would be places strategically into seminar groups based upon our divergent thinking styles. Can't I just tell them straight up that I'm a power monger who leads each group with an iron fist? Try the test yourself...

Dan-e-o came over last night and we had another round of the WWE DVD board game after watching the Unforgiven PPV. I swear this guy has loaded dice. NO ONE is THAT lucky!

The open house has officially begun

To all our beloved friends and family: Tasha has been asking Sarah and I when she was going to get to meet all of you. If you'd like to come by the house for a visit, the princess will be waiting! The mandatory 2 week waiting period is over.

Give us a call at home to let us know when you'd like to come by, or if you need directions to our new place. Can't find the number? Just email me at canadastallestcoach@hotmail.com.

New Tasha Pics..........

A bunch of pics in this post. We have shots of Tasha chillin' out (something she's very good at) hangin' out with mom and dad, with Khiera, Andre, and in her funky stroller.

Yes I know, she really is the most beautiful baby in the history of babies. You know it...